How do I support a grieving teenager?

Teens grieve intensely but may hide it behind anger, withdrawal, or risk-taking. Don't assume they're 'fine' because they're acting normal around friends. Make yourself available without forcing conversations: 'I'm here whenever you want to talk — even at 2am.' Respect their need for peer support alongside family support. Allow them to participate in memorial rituals and make their own choices about attending services. Watch for red flags: substance use, self-harm, prolonged isolation, or declining grades. Consult your pediatrician or a teen grief specialist if concerned.