ParentGuide

📚 School Age · 6–12 years 🏳️‍🌈 Gender Identity & LGBTQ+

How do I support a child who is questioning their gender identity?

Listen with curiosity, not panic. Ask open-ended questions: 'Can you tell me more about how you're feeling?' Use the name and pronouns your child requests — research from the Child Mind Institute shows this simple act significantly reduces anxiety and depression. Don't dismiss their experience as 'a phase,' but also don't pressure them to define themselves immediately. Create a safe home environment where they know they're loved unconditionally. Connect with resources like PFLAG. Consult your pediatrician, who can refer you to a gender-affirming specialist if appropriate.

This information is general guidance and does not replace professional medical advice. Always consult your pediatrician for medical concerns.