How much should I help with homework without doing it for them?

Research shows that supportive homework help (being available, encouraging, creating a quiet workspace) positively predicts achievement, while intrusive help (hovering, correcting every answer, doing the work) actually hurts performance. Set up a consistent homework routine: same time, same quiet space, supplies ready. Be available for questions but let your child struggle productively — that's where learning happens. If homework consistently takes much longer than expected or causes tears, talk to the teacher and your pediatrician.